Dear Joy, and many of my regular readers....
I AM BACK!!There is so much to write, however I've been only writing them in my head without the availability of internet on this holiday. I like that too as it is the only time, most of us take the break from sitting in front of a computer and really go do something!
First and foremost, I haven't been writing before the trip as I was actually getting fearful of the thought of traveling with someone totally new. An acquaintance. I shall further elaborate later on in this post. Besides that, I have been migrating most of my old blog entries over... I went through them, they reminded me of so much... things I did and what I thought when I was merely 22.
Back to my Saigon trip, I traveled with a new friend,
H. It was very random and really weird to think of it now. We met online recently (in fact 3 weeks before the holiday), booked the trip barely 1 week after a MSN conversation, met up twice before we went to Saigon.
I didn't hold any expectation (of course) on this trip... Some of my friends actually thought I'm romantically linked to him (for God's sake, NO!). A guy and a girl on a trip, of course we're often mistaken as a pair, it didn't bother me as much as his attitude which began to really surface at many parts of the trip.
H appears to be one of the most easy-going people when I first met him. After a few shopping hunt for his shoes, I realized there is more behind this . That's only a facet of his multiple sides. He is a super-duper fussy shopper (worse than a woman). Closing one eye, you might still think he will make a good shopping buddy on a holiday.
Many things happened. I realized
H can be such a MCP. E.g. on the night before we flew, he wanted to save his cab fare and decided to stay over at the airport. What more is that he expected me to do so with him??!!! I was caught with a minor cold, and decided against that, and he took it personally. I began to see the "not so understanding" side of him.
Before the trip, he was too busy so I made most of the planning as to where to visit and discussed with him. When we got there, he rather asked the hotel lady boss and wanted to change the whole plan if what she suggested seems much better than mine. I was quite tolerant towards this. It turned out that her suggestion was identical to what I have planned, so he went along with it.
We read about Vietnam could be a spot for Malaria & Dengue fever, not wanting to take a big risk, he went for the pills. I brought a spray. One night where we stayed in Can Tho (a city near the Mekong river), our tour guide had casually remarked about the existence of Dengue fever. That night we had a non-aircon room and he almost freaked out, worrying that he would get bitten that night. I wanted to laugh, but he was
so so so paranoid about stuff like that. When our tour guide finally said the mosquitoes only come at dusk or dawn and mostly at the river/village area,
H then let his guard down.
At many times,
H was so obsessed with what he wanted to buy on the trip. He wanted to find them, so he was dying at every chance he could to find some shopping venues. When we did sightseeing, he didn't show the same enthusiasm. At one point, I was so pissed and I told him to go to where he wanted instead of following me around to visit Temples in Chinatown.
Ya know what he said? "Singapore has all these temples, they are the same, why do you want to come here to see them!" So shallow and narrow-minded comment, unbelievable!!
The most hideous thing he ever said, was that Singaporean women are
stupid which is why local men went for Vietnamese women. The truth is that these local men (exactly like him) are incapable of keeping one by their side, these local men are MCP and unable to keep up with our higher standards. They have only small penises and small brains -
Sorry if this offends you, but this is meant for men who looks down on their own (country's) women. SHAME ON YOU!
I realized even more that an university education doesn't make one a better person. In fact,
H who was or still is on NUS's Dean list, so what??? Does that mean you're more successful, much kinder or even a more sympathetic person. Unfortunately not, in this case. He's boastful, shallow, narrow-minded, MCP and even though he might be intelligent but his EQ is barely passable.