9.8.12

Raspberry pink

Rumour: Glitter on the edge will prolong the manicure.

And so I tested it out. Not too bad, but its the other edge that's wearing off now after a week :P

By the way, this is one of the pinks I got from USA. Very good quality polish for only USD2!


30s

I laughed and cried while I read through those emails. Things that I wrote 4 years ago. I have aged. Now I am able to laugh at the person I used to be, now I can see why women in 30s are more attractive to men. I think when we reached 30, we began a new perspective of life. Maybe not we, but just me? I became more rational, less impulsive, more confident and I have better control of my emotions. Some years ago, I cared about how people look at me, I cried over silly things, I lost my patience over various things and I accomodated people who were obviously in the wrong! Now, I show my dissatisfaction and of course using my rational side. I get more "Sorry" than getting screamed right back and I know that's because I am able to prove they are in the wrong. For once, I'm so thankful that I have hit the 30, and this is only the beginning.

August, you're wonderful. Thank you for waking me up!

28.7.12

New URL

Just a note that I will be changing my blog URL. If you know me personally, ask me for it. I am not certain that the former one will be re-directed to it. If not, I think GOOGLE will be a great help in finding me ;)

26.7.12

BRB

I am having writer's block on blogging the USA trip... So give me some time! It's a long one and I'm trying to recall and look back at those memories.

My nail art projects

And so I unleashed my creativity on my nails...



Waiting for ...

And so sure enough, my friend is on her rebound relationship (job). She texted me today, telling me of her desire to leave the job she barely started for a month! What was my response? "Why start something when you do not even like it (enough)?" Isn't it true? They always say that the one is worth waiting for. Now this better be true :)

21.7.12

BKK: Shop, shop and shop

This trip was booked months ago. A 3D2N free and easy package in Bangkok for the 6 of us. An all girls' trip. We never travelled before, but we did have a number of lunches together. Have you ever heard someone saying,"Travelling with a girl can be a chore, can you imagine x 6?" Haha. How true! I still like the feeling of travelling solo, but once in a while, having a company can be fun.

We stayed at Le Meridien Bangkok. A world apart from the places I usually bunk at when I travel budget. About time to indulge myself I reckoned, even though in America, we did stay in hotels too but not a 5 star. The service was friendly and amiable, especially when it came to arranging for a birthday cake surprise for HQ whose birthday happened to be the second day we were in Bangkok. Our bathroom is huge, with a corner for toilet, shower and bath tub which sits by the sliding door! If only I was alone, I would be watching the TV with a glass of wine, soaking in the tub :D We also got to stay on the highest floor, 24th storey (not sure if that's because we have a birthday girl or I happened to be using my new Starwood Preferred Guest membership). The housekeeping didn't meet our expectation, they did not tidy up our room. We chose to go green, meaning skip changing of towels and sheets, but not everything else. Oh well. The location is near the seedy bars in Bangkok, but we still felt pretty safe.

The first day started about 4pm saw us rushing through Platinum Mall and Naraya at Central World. It was enough to starve us till 9pm before we started looking for food. As one of the girls is a vegetarian, we had to split into two groups. I joined the vegetarian as I wasn't a steamboat fan. It was a bit of a disappointment as we agreed to have Thai food but somehow the "leader of the pack" changed her mind without asking us. I guess this was when things became a little rough. Some of us had some sort of friction with her due to her domineering and hostile behaviour. So the second day, we decided to split into two groups again as she had her own itinerary which not all of us wanted to follow. When you travel, you often can see someone better through all the little things that happened. So keep your eyes peeled!

The following morning past 9am, we arrived at Chatuchak weekend market. (Whoever said 6am?? Well the leader of the pack did, coming from someone who has just been to Bangkok a few months back!) It was barely open, so we grabbed a bite. I had never came here before, my last trip to Bangkok back in 2003 was tagging along my uncle, visiting temples and sightseeing. It was new for most of us, Zen, Andie and me spent almost half a day there, taking a break in between. We did get some good deals, but also skipped a lot as the heat was unbearable and we were not in the mood to bargain. Unfortunately for the other group, they did not get to see Chatuchak as they left in a cab shortly after breakfast (not sure why as one of our intentions was to visit Chatuchak). Poor HQ, I hope she gets to come back again! It was lucky the 3 of us got on quite well and were very accomodating to each other, we managed to survive Chatuchak and Central World before settling for a late McDonalds' dinner. That night, we celebrated HQ birthday with a cake from the hotel. After that, HQ and me went out for a drink at the 24 hours Tom & Toms nearby.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HQ~

The last day, HQ decided to join me, Andie and Zen for some last minute shopping while the two of them went for massage. We spent the morning at MBK, which was a letdown. It was said to be a heaven for mobile accessories but things were way too overpriced for tourists, Andie and me did not manage to buy anything except splurging them on food instead. I spent 1500 bahts just on food souvenir, and Andie beat me hitting over 2000 bahts. We must have gone crazy!! The food like pork floss rolls and durian chips aren't really cheap, they cost about S$6 for a pack, but I guess they are still worthwhile compared to buying overpriced mobile accessories :)

We missed Siam Paragon and the rooftop bar which I initially wanted to give it a go. I want to re-visit Platinum Mall for accessories, it wasn't fantastic for clothings as you need to buy in bulk for wholesale prices. Chatuchak market, yes, definitely again. I guess, it means I have to go back again!! 3D2N is seriously too short but just nice enough to indulge in a superior hotel I think! After the trip, I think we have also realised who we can travel with and who not to ;)

29.6.12

In between men

If there's one thing that I am pleased being "out of love", it is the fact that I can lose weight even without trying. Oh, I seriously do not miss sitting 9 hours a day, with breakfast, lunch and the snacking. I can fit into some of my old pants now. Yeay!

For now, I wilk need to enjoy the flexible sleeping hours, my freedom and a little holiday coming up. Yes, money, you can come later...

Marrying a job

I feel that a job is like a boyfriend. Once you have one, you spend lots of time with it. You sleep thinking about it, it stresses you out, yet it can also provide you with a sense of security, belonging and happiness.

If so, I am out of love again. Why? Because I met the wrong guy?

A contract job sounds like a fling. A job of 10 years seems like a husband. If so, one of my friends just got divorced... It is a very scary thing if that husband happened to be your first love too. From the sound of things, she sounded like she is going to be on a rebound soon. She told me she felt like taking on a job she doesn't feel happy with while she searches for the right one. That's not the way! Having been on a few flings before, I definitely have a different perspective. While she probably felt like she has wasted so many years on that ex-husband, she wants to try a few guys before deciding now. Well, if things are that easy! Many a times, we go by first impression and gut feelings before jumping into a relationship. How often do you think he happens to be "The One"?

"You never try, you never know." My philosophy. So maybe flings suit you while you want to find the perfect husband. But I do realise maybe there is none so perfect afterall, you just need to find one that would give you that happiness, that would not forsake you in events of illness, hardship and bankruptcy. How true?

27.6.12

One month later...

Ooops.

I am so sorry. I know I have been missing in action. After the holiday, I have been winding down from all the madness climaxed from the preparation of the trip, the stress from the planning and sorting out things at work and then the real holiday plus the wedding itself. Not forgetting, the mum got hospitalised just a day before my flight! Overwhelmed.

Yes, that's the word. I was overwhelmed.

One month later now, I am finally easing myself back into a routine, not one that I am very pleased with (at the moment). I am still sorting things out, all the administrative after the holiday, being sick for a week, caring for the mum who had a minor surgery just before I left for the trip, started the job hunt and then preparing myself for an upcoming Bangkok trip. My luggage is still not fully unpacked, because there is another trip coming up or perhaps my heart is just longing to go somewhere?

I still have so much more I wanted to do. I'm just starting to check things off the list, getting bills paid, getting my IC replaced (such a horrifying reminder that I am 30 again), running errands, catching up with friends and doing precious lunches at places I couldn't before. I need to write about the USA trip for sure, I need to submit reviews. I know I owe this blog too many movie and food reviews which I seriously need to put aside time to write, but we will see. I will slowly fill this up again.

In the meantime, I am writing to let you know I'm still breathing and I hope you're still reading :)