Not losing hope (as it says above).
Too much air of negativity have been hanging around me. Even though most of them aren't directly related to me but I feel for them. My friends - the ideal couples - the couples whom many of us thought will end up together or even forever. 3 loving couples broke up, some of them have even discussed about marriage! One ended up in divorce. What is the world coming to??? Why do so many people give up on making things work, or perhaps it might be a blessing in disguise to meeting the right one later on? I don't know! But it's very demoralising, not just for them but also slowly bursting more and more bubbles of this dream (a happy ending) I have built up in my head.
Speaking of that, being single is sometimes a good thing. I have stopped setting an age limit like many others (especially the locals) like an ideal to get married, to have kids. I have also stopped defining happiness as only the happiness you could derive from being with a loved one. Life has to go on, even if it doesn't consist of the person you once loved this much. Even though at the very end, most of us still hopefully wish to find that person to grow old with (Is there really such thing as THE ONE or can humans stop being greedy and always yearning for greener pasture??). Quality time is often much better than quantity :))
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