18.12.04

S.P.G

In Singapore, we have a name for women or girls whom only go for white men (Caucasians). Sarong Party Girl. It sounds Malay to me, and I didn't know how it came about. Now it's infamous and every time you see a white man with a local girl, u think she must be a SPG. Even though I've a German boyfriend now... I still strictly believe I'm not one. My expats friends/colleagues never thought I am one anyway... not sure about my Singaporean mates...

In my own definition, how do I differ from the normal SPG...

1. I do not ONLY date white men, I take whatever that I fancy and comes at the right timing.
2. I do not specifically go to the expats hang-outs and fish for one.
3. I do not offer or initiate sex to them just because they think you're an easy prey.
4. I don't wear skimpy, don't like to show off having a boyfriend whom is white (unless of course I'm proud of who he is).
5. I do not have the mindset that white (Caucasians) are always better than the yellow (Asians). In some way, I still prefer some cultural values us (the Asians) have. In another way, I prefer the upbringing in the western countries. Maybe they should learn from one another.
6. I never seduced one!


p/s: so, if you always have been thinking I'm a SPG, pls stand up and voice out... ;)

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