短暂还是永恒？？你选那个？

Short-lived or forever, which do you choose?

There are things that can last you a lifetime, but the quality can be bad or so-so. But if there are a lot of things that are short-termed but filled with quality (i.e. a much happier time), would you rather take them?

I think I would and I will. Life can be short, how long is a lifetime?? It varies. If you look for someone who can be your life partner, and there's so much qualities you look for in him/her, you may never find that perfect person. I think life is imperfect. Maybe by the time you've found him, you've barely enough time to even make it last a lifetime, perhaps the last years of your life. So how about many good short-termed relationships with someone not as perfect as the life partner you're looking for?

Life should be that. Good fun. Imperfect but with someone nice making up for that.

I have changed my occupation in Friendster to 'Seasonal-serial-dater', some people thought it's true... Well, it can be. I'm open to dates as long as you are interesting and don't expect much (yes, I mean much... don't come to me with an intention, it never works). Somehow I'm a thrill-seeker in dating, I enjoy experiments, blind dates and unexpected events. More so, if there's something new I can learn from the person (like teach me a language, I'll be intrigued, even if its Cantonese). But well, it doesn't take a lot to keep my attention, just need to find the right way. Life is short, experiment it to the max!

I hope I'm not sounding like I'm hinting you to ask me out on a date. It's just my thoughts... I've enough to occupy for now!