26.4.06

What are your bad points??

I say, we know ourselves best... So we should be the ones understanding our own strengths and notice our own flaws! Am I right to say that?

But when we do hear it from someone else, it seems even more convincing... or at some point it hurts. Does it?? I thought I used be very sensitive to these, when all I wanted to hear was honest comments. Can you take it and accept them? I seem to be able to take it in better now. I reckon it's because I accept myself for what I am, I know my flaws and I want to work on them... and not just be upset and cry just because someone is disapproving or critical of me.

I also realise I tend to be very honest when I tell my friends how they are (or appear to me)... Too blunt, I wonder sometimes if they are offended. But I have also began to be more tactful as I think it has become important to recognize all people are different. Guess being too honest and blunt can be a flaw, isn't it?

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