Mr Porky has a baby

For long-time readers of my blog, you should have read about a Mr Porky more than a year ago. Never mind even if you didn't have the faintest idea of who he is. That was a nickname or rather a pet name I came up with when I was seeing him. He does remind me of the cartoon character, cuddly and in certain ways adorable.

He recently got married and will be a father in few more months. Be a father, then be a husband?? Another guy I used to see had this same encounter. I'm beginning to wonder, are these men crazy to have a baby or is it an accident! That moment, I felt relieved I did not have that "extra blessing" when I was with them. Maybe it is their fate... and this is mine.

Mr Porky still retains this habit of "disturbing" me on the MSN; he likes to ask too much about my life, unwillingly to share his. Initially I was so irritated by his behavior, one which I reckon too immature for his age (being 10 years older). He never wanted to share a photo of his newly wed wife, nor to mention anything about this woman. Is he proud of this woman whom he married?? I felt ashamed on her behalf.

Today, I am never bothered by his chat window suddenly popping up in my face, within some minutes I would have hit the "close" button. I am so glad the man I'm seeing today is in many ways a better fit than him. In all truth, I don't feel anything for a man of my past, not even jealous that the bride wasn't me, somehow I feel good about the life I'm leading. So Congratulations!! Porky, I wish you well or more for the upcoming baby.