Being self sufficient is an attainment. Happiness is a drug, it gives you temporary relief from the pain of reality. Depression is like hijacking a ship, not only do you sink, you want others to sink with you.
More realization. As you get older, more things come to you.
朋友可遇不可求。 This phrase in Mandarin says, you can meet friends but you don't have to beg for them. How true! Yet so many people are taking friendship for granted, I am now thinking of "unfriending" a friend, she has been giving me the hostile attitude for a long time. To be honest, if she thinks its making me unhappy, she's wrong. I can't be bothered. I'm not going to beg for a friendship to work. If she doesn't want to reciprocate, cherish the things we have or even appreciate the effort that I have made, this is the end of it. My life is much better without someone whose constantly having PMS and wants everyone else to sink with her. No one has the rights to make another person feel bad or worse than herself! That's my principle. Time to celebrate~ HOORAY!
I wish she can find her inner peace one day! (And of course, this is meant to be sarcastic!)
unfriend her in Facebook? : P
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Yeh I already did last night... she has been sending me ESSAY sms this morning. When she realised I have deleted her, she asked if this is the end. I think its best so she won't be jealous of all my activities on there with other friends. I felt like I am married to her even though she has a husband!
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